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borderline mass shooting

Mass Shooting

November 18, 2018 // By: Jeanne
Posted In: Musings // Leave a comment... Be the first!

Not a post I ever thought I would write about. Well, maybe in regards to raising kids in a world that is VERY different than how I grew up. I could bring up the subject of these, “mass shootings” that we read about or watch on the news. But you never really think they will happen in your town or that you are so closely affected. It’s in the back of your mind that it could happen but when it does… its shakes you to your core!

Today, was one of those core shaking moments in life. I woke up this morning to text messages asking  “Is Alexis okay??” , “tell me Alexis is safe!” , “is Lex home??? Everything okay??” Standing in my bedroom barely awake, my heart dropped into the pit of my stomach!! A million things went through my head as I rushed over to my oldest daughters room, was one of the most unsettling moments of my life.  And the relief that went through my entire body as I see her sleeping peacefully in her bed, was one of the greatest moments. To then, have my heart sink back into my stomach as I realize the reason “why” I got those text in the first place. A masacre, mass shooting, whatever you want to call it… happened in the next town over. A place that my daughter was dancing at just the week prior, on Halloween. And she could’ve been there last night. Had my husband and I not asked her to stay home and watch her little brother so we could have date night. I immediately realized that her childhood friend, the one that got her to start going dancing at College Nights at Borderline, was there last night. She had text Lex right before we headed out for the evening, “Hey, Borderline tonight??” I started frantically calling her parents to make sure she is safe, to no avail, I called her aunt, who answered and said she was home safe. But she had been there!! She escaped out of a window, that someone broke by throwing a chair or stool at. Found safety in the back on someones pickup truck as they were driving away. Little banged and cut up, she is home safe. A moment that altered her being. Now, one kid that I knew was there safe, onto the next. Called my dear friend who’s daughter also regularly goes to Borderline. She didn’t go last night! Thank goodness! Then to find out another long time friends children were there! All three of her kids! Celebrating the youngest sibling that just turned 18, plus about 8-10 of her close friends. Who, thank the Lord, all are safe! There are so many emotions that are running through myself and my family. I feel so much relief that our daughter is safe, but deeply saddened because others have lost loved ones and they’ve lost them so tragically. No one should experience what these families are suffering through. And yet, here we are. Something that seems to be a norm?! And this “normal” ISN’T okay!! How do we raise kids and let them go?? When schools, music festivals, churches even college dance nights (the list goes on) are a target for mass killings.  And I’m over here struggling with social media and trying to keep my kids innocence somewhat intact. This shouldn’t be a thing. I’d rather deal with my social media issue a million times over than this! And again, my daughter is safe and didn’t go. I don’t claim to know anything about directly suffering through this tragedy, except for it affecting my family, friends and community. One of the safest cities in the country was just ripped to the core. Unsettling doesn’t cover it and words can’t describe.

I have a deep sympathy for families that go through such tragic loss, who doesn’t. My heart bleeds for them. I know it changes when it’s YOU going through the tragedy. Something I can say, I am not experiencing in this instance, at least not for personal lost.  And for that, I am beyond grateful. I struggle with, what do I do? How can I help? In what capacity can I make a difference? So last night while on “date night” my husband and I were discussing elections, which just happened on Tuesday. I am in no way getting political, so stay with me… I asked my husband, if he ever thought he would become vocal on social media in regards to his political views. (He and I just post silly or family photos on Facebook or Instagram) He said that he didn’t think he would ever get political, but maybe he would find a voice in regards to our planet and how it can’t and won’t sustain the way it is going. Things change when you have kids and you want them to have the best life. And ya kinda need a planet in order to have a life. The two go hand in hand!! So with that, I agreed with him. Everyone should have a voice, and in a positive way. Our conversation last night was more having a voice in protecting our planet for our children and hopefully future grandchildren. I can be very passionate about this beautiful Earth we are blessed to have! But that will be saved for another time. My focus as of this morning, is how do I PROTECT my KIDS so that they can LIVE, to love this beautiful planet!?! How has the world shifted to such tragic survival for our children??

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As I have mentioned before, I struggle with social media. I try making phone calls and face to face conversation, a priority. Teaching my kids to get off their phone and be PRESENT! It isn’t easy making a shift to function on social media platforms. But, I am giving it my best shot. This is me trying to find my voice in this crazy world! As hard as it is for me. Now, as lucky as I am that my daughter was safely sleeping in her bed last night. That isn’t true for so many families and friends of loves ones that lost their lives last night.Their lives stopped in their tracts and will forever be on a different path. I know there is nothing I can do to change or take away any pain that they are suffering through. But talking about it. Sending love and support to them, well… that’s something. Start conversations, and hopefully, one day a solution will present itself. But at the very least, remember and embrace each other.  Find a silver lining. When family, friends and communities come together, its gives hope. And with hope, comes some form of comfort, that in time can start the healing process. There is beauty in communities coming together after tragedies. Hope and Love is the foundation that rebuilds the broken.

As ANGRY as what happened at Borderline makes me. I am equally as saddened. As of right now they have no idea what motivated the gunman to target Borderline. Am, truthfully I don’t know if they ever will. I’ve heard he has PTSD? Maybe suffered from depression or mental illness? Regardless, if we take the stand on mental illness, PTSD, gun control. As it all should be addressed! Addressing those issues will definitely take time. Its a huge debate these days. And debates get personal and things can get heightened when emotions take over and drive. My voice, my thought is, don’t be quick to judge, but be quick to listen. If you can listen long enough, a lot of the time, the truth and/or the core of what a person is going through, always surfaces. Patience is key. We ALL can stand to keep our mouths a little quieter, opinions to ourselves and listen just a little longer. How different would the world be if we didn’t always interject our opinions before we let someone land their plane with what they think or feel. Sometimes we just need someone to listen, so we can work out what we really feel and what we are trying to get across. And KINDNESS!! For heavens sake, be kind. A smile and just a simple “Hello” can change someones day. So let do more of that! While we do have serious issues, like gun control, that need to be addressed. Right now, and always, Love HARD! Hug HARD, like actually HUG, not a “I’m a dried flower, don’t touch me”… BEAR HUG! Simply smile and be kind. The small things do count! <3

Lots of Love ~Jeanne

About Jeanne

I’m Jeanne – cook, photographer, momma of 3, and lover of all things homemade, especially tacos! I started Passion & Poppies because I wanted a way to catalog my kitchen and life endeavors.
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My friend was at the beach a little while back, an
My friend was at the beach a little while back, and saw this set up. How awesome and sweet is this! 
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Today, my hubby and I are celebrating our 5 year wedding anniversary. Our engagement wasn’t elaborate like this, but it was our own kind of magic, and maybe a little awkward. 😂 
For those of you who don’t know, I’ve known my husband since we were 8 years old. He was my first crush, one of my best friends growing up, and my favorite person. Life happens, different paths were taken, so on and so forth. But always remained a favorite person. He is genuinely and factually, one of the most amazing men on the planet. 
Long story short, he obviously came back into my life, lucky me, and we’ve been connected ever since. 
I tell you all of that, to help understand the awkward silence that came over me when he got down on one knee and said “will you marry me?” ..... I do not know how long I didn’t speak, move or anything. (I’m going to have to ask him) The only thing I know is that I’ve never had an out of body experience, until that day. I felt like I was floating, observing what was going on. The slight breeze, the water running under the bridge, and my most favorite person down on one knee asking someone... wait is that me?! Did he just ask me to marry him? Am I dreaming? I’m dreaming... awe... I love him... and then I hear, with a shaky voice “Babes, is that a yes?” 
Oh snap! This is real! And then I finally say “YES!!” Then I leaped at him, almost knocked him over and I’m sure at that point made him feel better. And hopefully every day since, he knows and feels like the center on my universe. 
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Where do you get engaged? And what’s your love story? 
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• Chocolate Croissant • It probably a good thi
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One of the many things I love about staying at the Avila La Fonda, in Avila Beach. Waking up to fresh baked chocolate croissants. 🥐 
The smell is amazing and taste delicious 🤎
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Jarcuterie and Champagne make the perfect afternoo
Jarcuterie and Champagne make the perfect afternoon snack in between wine tasting. ❤️ 🧺 
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• Carnitas Tacos • If I had to choose one meal
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Thank you @mattkolo for your recipe! It’s bomb.com!! 
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The hubby and I have dialed in this recipe and I promise it doesn’t disappoint. Right down to the crispy bits that make this over the top!! 
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Recipe is on the blog, link in bio, search Carnitas Tacos or 
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Whelp, I can’t write straight. 😂
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I decided

Whelp, I can’t write straight. 😂 
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I decided to hand letter on the wrapping paper for my hubby’s anniversary gift. As you can tell, it’s been a while since I’ve practiced writing.
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#handlettering #handwriting #moderncalligraphy #anniversary #gifts #lettering #write

• The Craft House • It isn’t just a place I
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This place is awesome! I’m proud of my sister-in-law and the space she has worked so hard to create. The DIY Craft Bar is one of my favorite aspects of this place. Who doesn’t love painting and sipping!? Plus, all the handmade products from local makers, make some of the best gifts. 
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It’s 21 and over, which mean you can have a beverage! And it also means no kids, which in turn means freedom! 🙌🏼 Win, win. (Swipe to the last photo to see what she has on tap)
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She does however have “Take and Make” kits for kids and adults, which Logan loves.  I love them too, because gives me a little bit of silence at home. #winning (Swipe to see Logan’s fish tank) 
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If you haven’t been here, I highly recommend you check it out. The seasonal crafts and products don’t last long. Believe me, the gnomes go quickly! 
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Store hours are posted on the website or go to website to order online:
www.thecrafthouse805.com or check out @thecrafthouse805 
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#thecrafthouse805 #thecrafthouse #paintnsip #diy #craftbar  #beer #wine #champagne #makers #makersgonnamake

• French Macarons • Have you tried these?? Def
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The first time I made these, as you can tell, they look like little burgers. The heart sprinkles helped I think. ❤️🤍 
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I have the recipe up on the blog. Will be updating it with some tips and tricks that I’ve learned. Will keep you posted when those are up. But check it out and I hope let me know if you make them, or have made them. Tips always welcomed! 
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Link in bio, search French Macarons. Or 
www.passionandpoppies.com/French-Macarons 
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Recipe from Magnolia Journal. Thank you @joannagains 
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#frenchmacarons #macarons #pastries #dessert #homemade #magnoliajournal #joannagaines

• Corned Beef • Never have I ever… microwave
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Hubby text me from Costco saying “this is all they have” with a photo of a microwaved corned beef. I didn’t respond fast enough, so it ended up in the cart. And well, we try really hard not to waste food. So yeah... we microwaved the shit out of it! Just kidding, it took like 7 minutes, and again, wasn’t bad. I am however looking forward to slow cooking the next one! 
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Do you like Corned Beef?
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#cornedbeef #costco #microwave #easydinner #dinnerideas

• Prosecco Cocktail with Berries and Lemon • C
• Prosecco Cocktail with Berries and Lemon • Cocktail or Mocktail, either way it’s delicious and reminds me of Spring. Light and refreshing, so in other words, it makes a great daytime beverage! 
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This is topped with Prosecco, which if you know me, I love my bubbles. Do you have any recipes that go with bubbles? Please share! 
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Recipe on blog, link in bio. Search: Prosecco Cocktail. 
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#prosecco #cocktail #lemon #berries #beverage #vodka #weekend #friday

• Lemon Artichoke Pesto with Cauliflower Gnocchi
• Lemon Artichoke Pesto with Cauliflower Gnocchi •
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First off, cauliflower gnocchi has become a family favorite. Who would’ve thought?! 
Second, I tried to replicate a jar of artichoke pesto I had bought, and happy to say, we love this a lot too!! I used homegrown parsley instead of basil, so good! 
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Full recipe is on the blog, link in bio, search Lemon Artichoke Pesto or
www.passionandpoppies.com/lemon-artichoke-pesto
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#easydinner #dinner #pesto #gnocchi #cauliflower #artichoke

• Bacon Wrapped Jalapeño Poppers • Or as my
• Bacon Wrapped Jalapeño Poppers • Or as my husband calls them, Atomic Buffalo Turds! 🤷🏼‍♀️
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Regardless of the name, have you tried these? They are always a big hit when we host. Only 5 ingredients and easy to put together. We love to throw them on the smoker but in the oven works just as well. 
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Check out the recipe on the blog. Link in bio, search “jalapeño poppers” or
www.passionandpoppies.com/bacon-wrapped-jalapeño-poppers 
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#jalapeno #jalapenopoppers #bacon #appetizers #partyfood #cheese

• Whipped Coffee • Also known as Dalgona coffe
• Whipped Coffee • Also known as Dalgona coffee. Super creamy, delicious and has a sweetness that reminds me of sipping coffee with my dad in Kenya. 
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So yeah, this coffee has my heart!
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Super easy to make. I have the recipe on the blog if you’d like to give it a whirl. 
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Link in bio, search “whipped coffee” or
www.passionandpoppies.com/whipped-coffee
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#dalgonacoffee #whippedcoffee #coffee #coffeelover #heart #morning

Doing a little work outside today with my little s
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Jen, @cacoffeerepublic your latte and latte art is on point 🤎☕️🤎
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#latte #latteart #coffee #bujo #bulletjournal

These are the cutest and most delicious heart cake
These are the cutest and most delicious heart cakes! Shout out to Cat’s Cradle Creation! Thank you for your hard work and tasty talent! 
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Things don’t always seem to go accordingly. I knew I was going to be busy making Cocoa Bombs, and wasn’t going to make our own Valentine’s dessert. So I ordered these about a month in advance. 
And even thought I only gave the kids 3 small pieces of candy, we were lovingly gifted a ton of sweets. Plus Mikinzee decided she wanted to make a cake. Low and behold, these adorable cakes went uneaten, until today! After lunch treat!! And I really mean it when I say they are delicious! On top of the surprise Seafoam candy or honeycomb she sent me. Which is now my favorite candy. 😂 
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Check out @catscradle_creations for other delicious treats. You will NOT be disappointed!.
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#valentines #heartcake #treats #chocolate #cake

Happy Valentine’s Day!! I posted about Shirley T
Happy Valentine’s Day!! I posted about Shirley Temple’s earlier in the week, and have now landed on an adult Shirley Temple, say hello to Chample! Champagne and grenadine! 
I got the recipe from my mother-in-law, who got it from @foodtalkdaily. She calls it the “Valentini” and serves it in a martini glass, which was super cute. I however just got rid of my martini glass, they were tacky, so this is my version. My daughter didn’t mind the marshmallow fluff and sprinkle rim, but I’ll either do the sugar rim or not. Either way, something fun for the holiday ❤️🍒
And any reason to have champagne! 🙌🏼
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#champagne #shirleytemple #valentines #heart #celebrate #love

• Cauliflower Tacos • Tacos are a food group,
• Cauliflower Tacos • Tacos are a food group, right? 
“Feed me tacos, and tell me I’m pretty” Yeah, sounds about right! 
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If you haven’t tried cauliflower tacos, go do it, now! Can be as easy as sprinkling taco seasoning on the cauliflower, or a few more ingredients and voilà, amazing cauliflower tacos! If you haven’t checked out my blog post for cauliflower tacos, I highly recommend. It will not disappoint! In there is also the recipe for Chipotle Crema, and Picked Cabbage, that goes brilliantly with the tacos. 
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Link in bio and search “cauliflower tacos” or
www.passionandpoppies.com/Cauliflower-tacos 
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#tacos #tacosarelife #cauliflower #foodie #easyrecipes #easydinner

Good Morning ☀️ and Happy Friday! Enjoying the
Good Morning ☀️ and Happy Friday! Enjoying the chilly morning, drinking tea and taking time to sit and be. Not something I do often. 
My mind landed on friends/family that I haven’t seen in a long while. Some due to distance, some due to hectic grind, but mostly due to Covid. 
Friendships are a huge part of making life go round. This post is for them, I might not see you or talk to you as often as I’d like, regardless, I still love and miss you! ❤️
Who do you wish you were having tea or coffee with right now?
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#friends #friendship #teatime #coffeetime #relax #goodmorning

• Homemade Booch • Kombucha, like or dislike?
• Homemade Booch • Kombucha, like or dislike? I’m a huge fan!  But our last batch tasted a little more vinegary than I like. So this is me, suggesting to my husband @brendo, let’s make a new batch! 😘
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#booch #kombucha #fermentedfoods #raspberry #brewityourself

🎶Happy is as happy does, laugh and live with a
🎶Happy is as happy does, laugh and live with a half-full cup...🎶 - Kenny Chesney 
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Two things:
1) If you ordered Cocoa Bombs from me, they are at the shop and ready for pick up, when ever you’re ready to get them. 
Check @thecrafthouse805 for store hours. 
Unless we’ve discussed other pick up arrangements.😘 
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2) Leopard print makes me happy 😍
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Happy almost weekend! ❤️
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#cocoabombs #chocolate #chocolatewasted #valentines #hotchocolatebombs #happy

• Spinach and Lemon Linguine • Made this for d
• Spinach and Lemon Linguine • Made this for dinner last night if you caught my stories. Simple ingredients, easy to make and supper yummy! Definitely adding into the rotation. 
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Recipe up on the blog. Link in bio, search “linguine” or go to website:
www.passionandpoppies.com
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#linguine #pasta #lemon #spinach #easyrecipes #dinner #foodie

• Shirley Temple’s and Roy Roger’s • Bring
• Shirley Temple’s and Roy Roger’s • Brings back my childhood memories. I don’t know why, but whenever my parents would take us out for Mexican food, I would always order a Shirley Temple. So now the two go hand in hand. And now the girls do the same thing. 
We ordered lunch from our local Mexican restaurant and made our own Shirley Temple and Toy Rodger’s. 
Super simple! 7up/Coke, grenadine and cherries. 🍒 
When was the last time you had one of these?
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#shirleytemple #7up #coke #beverage #cherries #maraschino #memories

•Super Bowl Sunday • Who are you rooting for??
•Super Bowl Sunday • Who are you rooting for?? 
I’m rooting for champagne and food! Cheers to love and hearts!! ❤️ Go football! 🙌🏼
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What are you snacking on? 
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#superbowl #snacks #appetizers #caprese #valentines #hearts

Candles and Gnomes… These are a few of my favori
Candles and Gnomes... These are a few of my favorite things! 
7 day countdown to Valentine’s Day! Candles are at the shop and moving fast. Head over to the The Craft house and check out what prints there are and some other fun finds. Like the Valentine’s sign by @something.gray ❤️
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If you can’t make it into the shop, you can always message me if you’re interested. I also ship and can arrange porch pick ups. 
This photo also reminds me I need to make more gnomes.
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#candles #handpoured #soycandles #gnomes #maker #valentines #gifts

What’s your favorite fruit? I don’t think I co
What’s your favorite fruit? I don’t think I could pick one, but a ripe, locally or backyard grown strawberry is close to the top. 

We are lucky here in Ventura county to be surrounded by strawberry fields. So when strawberry season roll around, this Strawberry Sorbet is a must! It’s so delicious. 

Recipe is up on the blog when you’re ready to make it. I mean, why wait til strawberry season. We do have them in stores year around. 😘 And it will make a great Valentine’s dessert ❤️🤎

Link in Bio, just search strawberry sorbet on site. Or
www.passionandpoppies.com/strawberry-sorbet
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